Who you Wit? Are you Cancer Free?
Have you thought about who or what makes you happy when you are with them and who makes you sad or drains the life out of you? Who makes you feel like you are on top of the world? Who makes you feel like you will never amount to anything? Have you ever thought about when you are around certain people the atmosphere shifts to how they are feeling, they create unwanted chaos, just because they are having a moment, then all of a sudden you are feeling like crap. That good feeling you woke up with all of a sudden is in the dumps....it's because there has been a transferring of the spirits, it's like a cancer the abnormal cells that divide uncontrollably have the ability to infiltrate and destroy normal body tissue, and the cancer has the ability to spread throughout your body, that's the same thing that happens when that person comes into a space where there is peace and joy and their attitude is not the same. It can take just one person's bad demeanor to cause a pause to shift the entire atmosphere. Having the wrong person in your space with an infectious bad disposition can set you back mentally, financially and spiritually!
You must be sensitive to the spirit and your surroundings, protect your peace and don't allow anyone to make their issues your issues. When something bad is in the atmosphere, begin to pray, don't fall prey to the cancer. You be the antibiotics and protect your peace. The most important thing you can do is walk in love and have a conversation if the situation is feasible. Watch the company that you keep and use your discernment when it comes to those that you allow in your space. Your happiness is the most important thing in the world, be aware of how someone else is feeling or what they're doing to where it doesn't negativity affect you. Don't let someone who is unhappy take away your happiness. The hatred and bitterness in someone else's heart isn't yours. Separating yourself from the negativity will not make you a bad person, it will make you a better person. Do what's right for you, don't allow someone with cancerous behavior to spread in your life.
When you are in connection with or around someone who may be in a toxic relationship some of their issues of feelings of low self-worth, helplessness, fear, anxiety, depression, insecurity, and even narcissism can be transmitted to you. Being tied to a toxic relationship(s) can be dangerous to your health; and will drain you to life. It goes without saying that toxic people aren't fun to be around, but the negative effect they can have on you goes deep. When you are dealing with someone who has nothing good going on in their life or issues that cause them to have nothing positive to say, these people will find ways to blame you for everything, they will try to control you, which can lead you to abandon yourself and everything you are called to do.
Don't let the negative expectations and opinions of other people affect your decisions. It's your life, not theirs. Do what matters most to you; do what makes you feel alive and happy. You need to decide who you are for yourself. Be who you are born and purposed to be and it starts with protecting your Peace. Choose who you allow in your circle and if they don't fit, don't force it, let them go! Don't allow the cancer to affect the body and don't be the cancer in your circle. Be of good character, be Happy!!!
Guard your heart!!!